internet safety 101... for all!


it's no secret that the internet is a big big big vast place full of many people and things! nowadays, it's difficult to stumble upon seriously bad things, unlike how it was when i was growing up online with all sorts of gross shock sites floating around... but just because the internet is more monitored and sanitized now, doesn't mean there's not still unsafe people and things to be aware of.

1. see something, say something


for adults, if you see something that you think is illegal in some way, here's the anonymous FBI tip line. if it's relating to children in anyway, here is the link to CYBERTIP. remember, if you see something that is illegal, it's important to not spread it. do not send it to your friends and especially do not post online where you can find the offending content. despite good intentions this could get you into a fair deal of trouble legally, as you are now distributing it. please leave it to the police.
for kids, please use the age old trick of telling a trusted adult! this could be a teacher, parent, or even sibling. never be afraid to tell somebody you trust if somebody, especially an adult, is making you feel uncomfortable or pressuring you into things.

2. do not feed the trolls


OK. trolls suck, they do, but you dont need to respond to them. infact, you should avoid it. totally ignore them. make it known that it does not bother you, because it shouldnt. trolls can say hurtful things but theres a reason they call it baiting, and theres a reason you're told to not feed them. (response = feeding!) trolls strive off of attention, and negative attention counts as attention, too. yes, it may not make sense, but they're doing it for fun to see how you react to it. the best thing to do is ignore, block, and walk away.

3. (for kids) keep internet and real life seperate.


a lot can be found out from tiny pieces of information you leave around the web! pictures you take with street signs visible, buisness names, and especially your school. if you have online friends, please keep your online and real life seperate! people online could be not who you think they are, and this sounds cliche but its very much true and has happened to me before. thankfully, i was not put into any danger but regardless, if you're not an adult, no one online should know where or how to find you. please do not share your personal instagram containing your school name or full name with people you meet online! in the age of AI, posting your face can be quite dangerous aswell. please be especially aware that whats on the internet, despite easily being lost to time, could be saved and seen by ANYBODY! anyone could save your selfie and you won't know. i reccomend private social media accounts for minors.
do not feed your face to ai, it can be tempting to see what you'd look like as a ghibli character, but there are now ai influencers being developed likely using the image and likeness of nonconsenting people who TECHNICALLY DID CONSENT by feeding their face and bodies to ai without reading the terms of use...which usually includes a clause regarding the company being allowd to reproduce, use, and sell, what is put into it.

4. AI and deepfakes


jumping off of my last point, it's especially important to know how to deal with AI and what happens if a deepfake is created of you. for starters, REPORT IT TO THE PLATFORM IT WAS SPREAD AND POSTED ON. depending on your age and content of the deepfake, this could constitute as child sexual exploitation material (CSEM) or child sexual abuse material (CSAM) or general child exploitation material (CEM). it is illegal to create, possess, and spread this, therefore it should also be reported to the aforementioned tiplines. you should also be aware of the TAKE IT DOWN ACT.

This bill generally prohibits the nonconsensual online publication of intimate visual depictions of individuals, both authentic and computer-generated, and requires certain online platforms to promptly remove such depictions upon receiving notice of their existence. Specifically, the bill prohibits the online publication of intimate visual depictions of an adult subject where publication is intended to cause or does cause harm to the subject, and where the depiction was published without the subject’s consent or, in the case of an authentic depiction, was created or obtained under circumstances where the adult had a reasonable expectation of privacy; or a minor subject where publication is intended to abuse or harass the minor or to arouse or gratify the sexual desire of any person. Violators are subject to mandatory restitution and criminal penalties, including prison, a fine, or both. Threats to publish intimate visual depictions of a subject are similarly prohibited under the bill and subject to criminal penalties. Separately, covered platforms must establish a process through which subjects of intimate visual depictions may notify the platform of the existence of, and request removal of, an intimate visual depiction including the subject that was published without the subject’s consent. Covered platforms must remove such depictions within 48 hours of notification. Under the bill, covered platforms are defined as public websites, online services, or applications that primarily provide a forum for user-generated content.
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no matter your age, deepfakes of a sexual nature created nonconsensually is illegal and CAN and SHOULD be promptly reported. remember, if you encounter a deepfake of a minor, even if it's yourself, do not share it around, tell your parent and go through the correct procedures.

5. online games & chat platforms


do you like online games... like roblox.. and whatever else is big among kids these days? YEAH! EVERYONE DOES!!!! online games are awesome BUT... unfortunately, even in a space created for kids, theres dangers lurking around. here is your guide to avoiding trouble and avoiding gross people even while trying to have fun with your friends.
1. lets say you meet someone on roblox, theyre really nice, but now they want to move things off platform, like to discord... or even telegram. first of all, NEVER add anyone you meet on games on apps like telegram, that is the first sign something is wrong. things get tricker when it comes to discord, though. discord is a very mixed bag in terms of the types of people. it could easily be an innocent kid your age, but it could also be some grown adult lurking and masquerading as a child. it's important to assess the situation. ask yourself "is this person asking to see pictures of my face / body?" * predators commonly use something such as "show me your outfit" as a way to solifict photos of minors they are attempting to prey on. don't fall for it!
"is this person attempting to gather senstitive information on me?" *sensitive information constitutes as anything that could identify you in real life, such as, your first / last name, state/province, city/town/village,.. and way too personal iinformation regarding adults in your life, such as times you're frequently home alone, parents names, jobs...
"is this person attempting to isolate me in any way?" *including asking you to keep things secret from your close friends and family, asking for you to abandon your preexisting friends to prove you are a loyal friend to them...
if you said yes to these, GET OUT! there are many dangerous people online, and people like that can be dangerous! its important to use basic reasoning, though. this guide is primarily for people under 16 (i actually partially wrote this up to give my siblings to read.) but its important all minors are careful online. predators know how to isolate, intimidate, and even blackmail to get what they want. be careful what you share with people and who you speak with! for example, if you're 12, and a 25 year old you meet on roblox attempts to take you off platform, THEY DO NOT HAVE GOOD INTENTIONS! DON'T FALL FOR IT! yes, adults and kids can be friends but within reason. anyone 18 or older should NEVER intentionally seek to befriend children under 16-17 (depending on the adults age, of course, it makes sense for an 18 year old to get along with a 15 year old, but ONLY IN A FRIENDLY MANNER. be aware of predatory behavior in everybody you meet who is significantly older than you.) within online games, especially ones enjoyed by all ages, its bound for ages to mix, and thats alright. theres nothing wrong with being a 10 year old girl playing dress to impress in a lobby with 20 year old women! the game is enjoyed by all ages, and thats what makes it so creative and fun, but it's a problem when an adult knows you're a child and still attempts to solicit you off platform. this tactic is used to skirt mmoderation due to the fact that online game moderators are mandated reporters. a mandated reporter is a person who is legally required to report child endangerment! predators know that if taken off platform, theyre less likely to be caught.